Point of dating
Dish-It is totally into insights and questions from whoever, wherever!Your comments or questions are just as important as anyone else. I guess it's hard to say exactly what the "point" of boyfriends/girlfriends is.
You need to know what you’re looking for, what you really believe about love and why you keep choosing the same types of guys and expecting a different result even though they’re exactly the types that aren't on the same page as you.
We need to see dating as more than simply a means to an end. This is about a new perspective on a familiar path.
We need to see it as an enjoyable journey, filled with adventure, new people and places, new friends and renewing old acquaintances. Yes, I know full well from my own personal experience that there’s going to be both the good and what you’ll call the bad. Without taking a chance on someone, we wouldn't find the one worth taking the chance on. Something comes from that conscious action that allows us to relax, to sit back and observe instead of trying so hard, looking so deep, and making this dating experience into such an all or nothing experience. Don’t sleep with anyone yet, no matter how tempting it is.
It’s time to revisit this concept of “dating” because it’s holding the bridge between being alone and finding someone to share our lives with. Don’t imagine the future with him or write him off yet either.
But most of us are approaching it completely the wrong way. There doesn't have to be the little voice that rushes ahead and sees the father of your children or your soulmate. We've shown ourselves too many times that our type is not compatible with our dreams and desires.It helps you learn to interact with others, express your feelings, develop a sense of what you want or don't want in a mate's personality, etc.