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But people are fighting back, simply by wasting as much of the scammers’ time as possible. I genuinely believe that instead of picking a fight, you should just let it slide and move on.The modus-operandi of many of these good-natured trolls is simply to pretend to be as dumb, tech-illiterate and hard of hearing as possible. I genuinely think that picking a fight with a phone scammer is a bad idea, and you should just hang up. They’ll have a thick Indian accent, and an improbably Anglicized name, like “Richard Smith” or something. At the other end is someone claiming to be from “Microsoft Technical Support”, or something similar.Unfortunately, it is frequently true that when caught up in an affair you can unintentionally become disconnected from your children and their needs.In other posts I have talked about the trancelike state of consciousness that one inhabits during an affair.
Children are tuned into the nuances of their parent’s relationships in ways that might be surprising to adults.
In many of these cases, the long-term effects on these children are not considered and the couple may be surprised years down the road at the amount of rage that the child has about what happened and how they were drawn in, and treated as another adult rather than the vulnerable child that they actually were.
There are reactions that occur while the affair is going on, but before it is disclosed, and reactions once an affair has been disclosed.
There is a sense that something that was whole that was the foundation for everything else has been severely damaged if not destroyed.
These younger children cannot put this into words very easily, but instead usually develop regressive problems such as physical illness, clinging, bed-wetting, thumb-sucking, fire setting, temper tantrums or night terrors – in fact, anything that seems an appropriate response to the fear that the family is about to be wiped out.I have heard more than once about a 2 or 3 year old becoming alarmed when mommy and daddy aren’t talking and actually trying to physically pull them together, while urgently pleading “daddy talk mommy.” Many betrayed partners, when looking back, can recount exactly when the affair started, even though there wasn’t “disclosure” until much later.