Dating and goodbye
When people fall in love initially, it isn’t the deep sort of love that most of us search for -- we may believe it to be, but that is why most of us become disillusioned over time.
When we initially fall in love, it’s a very shallow form of love.
But what I’ve come to realize is that allowing yourself to fall in love with other people can go a long ways to your recovery.“Just fall in love with someone new, you say? ” I’m not telling you to go out there and find the new love of your life -- it was surely hard enough the first time around.
What you can do, however, is allow yourself to fall in love in the shallowest of senses.
Again, you have to be careful with allowing your emotions to run loose -- emotions are complex and often deceiving, pulling you away from reality.When you meet someone you fall for and build a relationship over a period of months or years, only to part ways, the damage done can haunt you for years -- even decades -- to come.People are the most important aspects of anyone’s life because people have the ability to change us in ways nothing else can.You build a vision of your future together in your mind.
You create hopes, dreams and you build anticipation.This may not solve your problem of letting that past lover go, but it will make it a whole lot easier for you to do so. Once it does, you can try one of the following suggestions.